Source Creator some may label as God, Allah, The All that is, and one may also think that the reality we can see with the five senses of sight, hearing, touch, taste and smell is all that there is.  However, the truth is that there really is more than the eye can see.  In the most simplistic terms the universe is a multitude of frequencies.  So are some better than others? No from the highest perspective none of the frequencies is any better than any other, each just enables a different level of experiencing reality.  

You see each frequency is like a meal on a cosmic buffet.  And so that the All that can experiences its self in the most expanded way possible different Aspects of it divided up and some bits travelled down to the 3D and some to 4D, 5D, 6D, 7D etc all the way up to 12 or more Dimensions.  None better than the other just a different frequency experience enablement.  However, some Aspects spread out even further and Ascended up the dimensions as well as down and yet some just concentrated in the lower dimensions or higher or in between only.  The higher and lower is not to be confused with better or worse or good or bad.  

However, the lower frequencies allow for an experience of contrast that is not possible elsewhere in the dimensions.  Yet, in the higher realms one can have a more birds eye view of the dimensions thus at each dimension there is different types of experience not readily available at the other dimensions to the same degree.  

So you see to enable the contrast in the lower frequencies some dropped their frequency to lowest possible which meant that many times they appeared to be bad guys/girls.  Yet, each Aspect is only ever playing a role to enable on a grand scale the cosmic buffet to be experienced by the All that is.  And the goal is to master as many experiences as possible because this is how The All that is knows itself experimentally.  

Now because in the lower frequencies the Aspect gets very disconnected from Source Creator it is necessary that the majority of the script is already organised to a certain degree so the right people just turn up etc and the right circumstances are already ready to play out at the right time.  

However, since the 21 December 2013, the reconnection for some has meant that those in lower dimensions have more connection to Source Creator and so the creative process can be created in the moment.  And still for others its still in the process of reconnecting and maybe for quite a few years.  


 
I was brought up to be nice.  Being nice meant saying yes and going along with what others wanted.  Being nice meant when my best friend said at 10 years old "You are not wearing that coat and copying me" I changed it and tried to find something very different.  I continued to confuse being NICE with being loving for many years later.  I always wanted to share with others.  I would go to work and share all I had learnt with others because deep inside I believed that we were all ONE and if I shared then we'd all benefit.  Others never agreed with this and with held everything they had learned and I would feel disheartened but still compelled to continue sharing.  When my first boyfriend would complain about each thing I would do I would try even harder next time, yet, I never seemed to hit what he wanted.  At work I would try to share and communicate and would be found writing a list and explaining all about my job so the person covering for me would find it easier.  However, they never returned this favour.  This being so nice also meant at any one time I would have lots on the go and inevitably I would end up letting someone down and they'd be so damn annoyed and I'd be left thinking - what happened I am doing so so much to help others can't they see this?  

The biggest disappointment came when I was studying and on placements.  I would try so hard to understand what was required and would put 110% into what I was doing but somehow it wasn't what they wanted.  I was such a 'NICE' person so why was I in such a horrible space?  I was frequently shouted at and told to stop making a big deal out of things.  So when I couldn't do what others wanted they'd shout, when they were doing something I didn't like and I spoke up they'd say stop making a big deal out of it.  To say the least I was totally confused.  How on earth will I ever get the outer to reflect the nice, sharing, caring world I wanted to live in.  Where were all the nice people?  

Even my Reiki Master seemed to be very impatient and short with me.  I began to wondered if there was something seriously wrong with me if the reflection in the mirror was so horrid?  And then I'd see such quotes and comments that you create your reality by what you are and what you do and think and feel - NOW these just drove the feeling of something being seriously wrong with me deep and more painful.  Being nice and loving just didn't seem to be the answer. So what was?

Self respect - I learnt that the person I needed to be nice to was me.  You see the way it is, is that what is out there is reflected outwards and so it doesn't matter so much what I do out there nearly as much as in matter what I do in here first!  You see cleaning the mirror doesn't improve the mirror half as much as nurturing what is being looked at through the mirror.  How I treat me is what is reflected out there.  So being nice isn't bad its just an inside job first!  


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